Friday, March 10, 2006

Guest writer: Annette Bridges, It's Never Too Late!

Since I have been sick as a dog these past few days, I offer this article by Annette Bridges so that I can keep my weary body under covers. The article is about the celebration of women for National Women’s History Month and the fact that it’s never too late to follow your dreams.

Too late? Maybe not!
By Annette Bridges

Do you have dreams that have never been realized? Do you feel like it’s too late to act on them? Well….maybe it’s not!
Since my childhood, I aspired to be a published author. I’ve always loved to write. Keeping a journal was a passion that began when I was nine years-old. But, many years passed without my dream coming true.

You might be thinking, why would anyone (besides my family and close friends) want to know anything about me and my dreams?

March being National Women’s History Month compels me to write not so much about me and my dreams, but about a woman whose life example is encouraging me to pursue my dreams. Even now, as I approach the half century mark, I’m an empty nester wondering what’s next for my life besides becoming a grandmother some day.

The pursuit of dreams, for women and men alike, has long been a powerful force in restoring hope in the face of impossible odds. Its power often comes when we consider that “impossible odds” might sometimes be self-imposed. Such as self-imposed “odds” that make us sigh with dismay: “too old” or “too late.” But to impossible odds, the dreamer and visionary will always say, “Not so!”

Mary Baker Eddy
I first learned of Mary Baker Eddy as an American author of a book that explained groundbreaking ideas about spirituality and health. Ideas that are more at home in the 21st-century than in her own 19th-century world, in fact. She openly challenged the conventional thinking in theology, medicine, and science of her times. So she was often the target of criticism and slander. Consequently, I’ve found that some historic records still don’t tell all the facts of her life correctly.

David Hufford wrote in his book, Eddy: Current Running against the Mainstream, “In the late 1800s, there were very few women in medical schools, in seminaries, or in universities. Mrs. Eddy and a handful of other women upset centuries of tradition when they began to speak and write about religious and medical issues…and to talk openly about the equality of men and women.”

There is much to learn from the lives of others. So, how important it is for his-stories and her-stories to be accurately told.

What inspires me now at this time in my life is Mary Baker Eddy was 54 years-old when her renowned book, Science and Health with Key to the Scriptures, was first published. And, top that with she was 87 years-old when she launched The Christian Science Monitor, as a balanced and ethical alternative to the sensational journalism of her day. A paper that remains a leading international newspaper today, I might add.

Such accomplishments, and there were many others, by a woman during her middle age and senior years, gives me inspiration to imagine the possibilities for my dreams today.

Eddy’s life story is testament to the fact that it’s never too late to pursue dreams. Her own words give some insight into how dreams can be accomplished. “The devotion of thought to an honest achievement makes the achievement possible.” Mary Baker Eddy’s life and accomplishments proved this for us all. (

History is filled with accounts of many great men and women who have fulfilled their dreams. Mary Baker Eddy describes their lives as “miracles of patience and perseverance.” And like them and like her, we’ve all got it in us.

Still feel like it’s too late to pursue your dreams?

Well…maybe it’s not!

© Copyright 2006 Annette Bridges
About The Author
Annette Bridges is a freelance writer and lives in Tioga, Texas, with her husband, John. Her B.A. degree is in Sociology with graduate studies in Early Childhood Education. Her goal is to offer a positive message and healing ideas in response to news, current events, seasons and life’s occasions. To read more columns and for contact information, visit


Janna of Canada said...

That's a great article, Nienke! Hope you feel better soon. The weather's supposed to be warm this weekend; wouldn't want to spend it sick in bed.

Tess said...

Thanks for the article, Nienke! Very inspirational and something to bear in mind the next time I feel down :-)

Feel better soon!!

Kelly Parra said...

Thanks for the article, Nienke! And get better soon!

Joylene said...

Hey there, I havent had a chance to pop in... But I hope your feeling better...Have a good weekend..

Heather Dawn Harper said...

Nice article. Thanks for the inspirational nudge. :)

Hope you are feeling better soon.

Sandy J said...

Thanks, Nienke! I love to read inspirational stories like that. Motivates me to realize that I can continue with my dreams no matter how long it takes or how old I get.

Feel better soon.

Dana Pollard said...

Thanks for the article. Talk about positive reinforcement!

Sending you soup and a get well balloon. Hope you feel better!

1 L Loyd said...

Hope you feel better soon.

Nienke said...

Thx guys! I can feel your positive waves coming my way!

Marie Elliott said...

Hi Nienke,

Love it, and pretty inspiring.

Meg Allison said...

Nienke, hope you feel better soon!

And thanks for the article -- very inspiring. That's one reason I love writing so much. It seems that age and experience make you all the better at it. ;) Here's hoping, anyhow.


nanza said...

so sorry your sick nienke...great post be well soon